When did you first realize you were attracted to horses? Do you have a horse “coming of age” narrative? Here, a 42-year-old man from Canada describes his life as a zoophile attracted to female horses. states and European countries - the lived experience of being a zoo is rarely heard outside of underground online forums or secret meet-up groups. As a result of legal restrictions - sex with an animal is illegal in most U.S. While it’s certainly not a homogeneous community, many “zoos” (as they are known to self-identify) are monogamous and live with their animals as if they were human partners. In 2002 the sex therapist Hani Miletski published Understanding Bestiality and Zoophilia, a book based on her study of almost 100 zoophiles - research that led her to conclude that many form deep, loving, and very nurturing relationships with their animal partners.
Bestiality, the act of having sex with an animal, tends to conjure images of a mucky, socially inadequate, desperate farmer sneaking into the barn after dark, or depraved groups of thrill-seekers forcing sex with drugged, abused, or otherwise mistreated animals (like the case of Douglas Spink and the animal-sex-tourism farm in Washington State).īut the sexual identity that can be attached to bestiality, zoophilia, remains little understood.
